We don’t like this disruptive behavior the most on the bus: ‘It’s more important than anyone else’

You have probably experienced one or more times when someone spoke to you in an unusually loud voice on the bus or on public transportation. Slowly, the person who had been talking so loudly about what he should buy food turned into talking about very private things, getting all of your attention.

to me Mats Danielsonan expert on wit and etiquette spoken to by TV4, it’s Snack Ice who loudly tells his whole life story on the bus that’s giving us an inconvenience.

But is it okay to turn to the noisy people on the bus and tell them that? If you tell someone in a polite way, it can happen — but you also have to rely on the fact that you can get punched in the nose.

This habit makes us stop thinking

– Technology has done it, but I would like to take it one step further. I think a lot has to do with our social climate which has become “I am more important than everyone else” which is actually the opposite of everything common sense and etiquette says, where it means you have to take care of other people, says Mats Danielson the channel.

He also believes that with the help of various media, including FaceTime and Zoom, we have acquired new habits that have become habits instead.

When we get used to talking loudly and communicating in public without worry – we stop thinking that we can actually be seen as annoying.